Congratulations! You’ve scored what many might consider to be their “dream job.” You’re teaching English overseas! You get to live in a location you’ve always dreamed of, you meet new people from around the world every day, you get to travel to exciting destinations on the weekends. There´s only one problem…
you don’t want to be an English teacher.
I’ve met countless people who have found their home away from home while teaching English overseas, but they’ve also discovered that this teaching English thing is just not for them. And the most frustrating part for many native English speakers living outside of their country is that teaching English is often the only option.
Unfortunately, I don’t have all of the answers to search out the immigration loopholes in whatever country you’re looking to relocate to. However, I worked for over several years making my living as an English teacher in Spain, despite the fact that my heart lay in the field of psychology and now I work with many online therapy clients who are in a similar situation as yourself.
The secret to working at a job that you’re less than enthusiastic about, in this case teaching English, is about putting things into perspective and thinking about how your current job may fit into your longer term goals Don’t ask yourself what you can offer to the world of English teaching, instead ask:
“What can this job offer to me?”
1. Improve Your Communication Skills.
The majority of your work day will be dedicated to talking and listening. You’ll learn how to clearly relay your message, and find multiple ways to get it across in order to ensure that your students understand you. It will also help you to become an expert in active listening skills. You’ll find that it becomes second nature for you to look for verbal and nonverbal cues to check comprehension.
As a therapist, I need to apply these skills on a daily basis and I know that all of my experience teaching English has given me the opportunity to sharpen them. Even if your future career won’t involve much person to person contact, you’ll find that these skills will help you in your personal life too. Everyone likes feeling like they’re being listened to.
2. Gain Entrepreneurial Skills
This is especially true for teachers who are going to be teaching private classes (tutoring). I saw English teaching in an entirely different light when one of my friends pointed out to me “you’re not just an English teacher, you’re an entrepreneur.”
By trying to build your clientele (i.e. students), you’ll have to work on branding, sales and strategy. You’ll need to become a self-starter, able to effectively organize your time to plan and teach classes. These will be great skills to help sell yourself to future employers, and who knows, maybe this experiment in entrepreneurship will inspire you to take the leap into continuing as an entrepreneur when your stint as an English teacher comes to an end.
What do you enjoy doing? What are you passionate about? If not English teaching, what possible careers ARE you interested in? Your adult students and fellow teachers are valuable resources as they may have connections with people working in this field in your new country of residence. Get their contact info and treat them to a coffee so that you can pick their brain about the ins and outs of their field of expertise in that country. Who knows, they may even have connections in your home country! They also may be able to connect you with an internship or volunteer opportunity. I got my foot in the door in the psychology department at the Universidad Autonoma de Madrid thanks to connecting with a professor there and offering to edit and translate research related documents for her research team.
4. Expand Your Social Circle
Many of my adult students I had in Spain turned into my friends. I often looked forward to going to my weekly class with them, much in the same way that I’d look forward to a coffee date with a friend, because it means we’ll have the chance to “catch up” (i.e. practice their speaking and listening skills). While I’ve never actually spent time with my students outside of classes, I have many friends who have invited their students to social gatherings such as Thanksgiving dinner or their birthday parties. When you spend week after week conversing with someone, it’s very natural for it to end up turning into a friendship.
5. Increase Your Competency in the Local Language
Most English teachers know that the key to effectively teaching English, especially when working with children, is to speak strictly in English. However, you’ll find that many of your students will still communicate to you in their native language. If you’re teaching kids this means that you’ll quickly improve your listening skills in order to understand what they’re hurriedly trying to get across. You’ll also find that some of your colleagues who are from that country will be eager to teach you (although others will see your presence solely as a chance to practice English). Your adult students will probably want to improve your proficiency in the slang of their native language and your teenage students will without a doubt want to teach you swear words.
6. Get Paid to Learn
Use your classes as an opportunity to increase your knowledge about new topics, or prepare lessons based on subjects that are of special interest to you. Incorporate your favorite TED talks, blogs you follow, or a newspaper article that’s caught your eye. Dedicate a class to introducing your students to Instagram, Pinterest or other social media sites that they’re not familiar with. If they become interested it can be a great topic of conversation to start off future classes. I once devoted an entire class to explaining to a student how “Tinder” works. I had other students that kept me up to date on the best websites to find good travel deals, while others filled me in on the most important world news headlines. And I learned a great deal about stuff that I’d probably never study on my own. Like the fields of finance and engineering. Or the rules of soccer and the way the World Cup works.
7. Plan Your Travel
This is related to #6 and particularly true for your adult students. Many of your students may be interested in learning English because they’ll be using it for business or pleasure travel. You can get inspiration for future places to visit based on where they’ve been and ask them for hotel/hostel and restaurant recommendations. They may even have pictures to show you which can serve as a great visual for them to practice their speaking skills (and good eye candy if you’re a travel enthusiast yourself!)
Even if they’ve never traveled abroad, it’s likely that they’ve seen a lot of their own country. Take advantage of their knowledge! Ask them about the top destinations worth visiting in their country and write down places they’d recommend eating at. Locals are a wealth of invaluable information when it comes to traveling. One of my best trips was a weekend in Asturias, Spain that I planned out during a conversation class with one of my students who’s from this region.
8. Blog Material
By improving your knowledge of the English language, you’ll also be improving your writing skills. If you have a blog then this will help you immensely in your ability to proofread your posts. And your teaching experiences are bound to provide you with a ton of material to write home about (i.e. write a blog post about). Some possible ideas: commonly misused words by students in the country you’re living in (i.e. Spaniards often don´t differentiate between the use of “fun” and “funny”), faux pas you’ve committed yourself while in class, 10 things you never thought your students would share with you, poll your students…the possibilities are endless!
9. A Chance to Play & Boost Your Creativity
As adults we spend far too much time checking off to-do lists, responding to emails, thinking about our five year plan…we need to spend more time playing! And if you teach English to kids you’ll have no choice but to do just that! You’ll get the chance to reminisce about your childhood by introducing your students to your favorite songs and stories, and you’ll become reacquainted with Simon Says, Red Light Green Light, BINGO, Heads Up-Seven Up and all your old childhood favorites you’d forgotten all about. Games are a great way to help your students learn.
Working with kids also forces you to get out of the linear, productivity-obsessed mindset that we can sometimes get stuck in. As we get older we often forget to think like children and this comes at a great cost to our creativity. By spending time with children we get the chance to think outside of the box. Their creativity is contagious!
10. Connect Your Teaching to Your Goals
If all else fails, remember your goals. Why did you move to a new country? Did you want to travel? Save money? Try out local cuisines? Maybe teaching English is giving you the chance to work less and devote your free time to exploring your passion and pursuing your hobbies?
Providing a quality English class will absolutely require you to prepare materials in advance, and that your main objective is for your students to improve their English level. But the beauty of English teaching is that in order for your students to improve, a great deal of conversing is required. Use that in your favor and you’ll find that even if it’s not your dream job, the hours you spend with your students don’t have to be a waste of your time.
Are you teaching English overseas? What else would you recommend for making the most of the experience?
I’ll be teaching English in Spain beginning this October. I’m not sure if teaching English is what I want to do long term, so if I’m ever starting to feel down about teaching English, I’ll have to reread this post. Thanks! I’m glad I found your blog!
I’m glad to hear it was helpful! I just started following your blog too! Looking forward to seeing your posts 🙂
I love this! This is exactly how I’ve had to look at things while working at my high school. I never really wanted to be a teacher before going to Madrid, and now I definitely know that I’m not cut out for the job (and even less so teaching Spaniards). It’s so draining for me as I am more of an introvert who hates taking charge, and although I make the most of it I don’t thrive in a classroom setting. I’m going to take up private lessons this year and maybe that will be a little more up my alley. What you’re doing sounds awesome! I’ve always thought that I would really enjoy something along the lines of counseling.
As an English Teacher in Korea I have to say that this little list of yours gave me some good stuff to ponder and be inspired by. Thanks so much for this! I often feel at the end of my rope with doing this, but yes, the lifestyle suits us so it’s hard to walk away from. Sometimes it only takes looking at it with a new perspective!
~ Andrea <3
I’m so glad to hear that these ideas were helpful for you!