Relationships can be complicated. Often times we feel disappointed with our partners and start noticing that nagging has become present in our everyday conversations. This is the time when we need relationship advice!
Mostly, we point fingers and demand changes from others in order to feel better. We want them to show more love, to help with the housework more often or simply to be able to give us more attention and understanding.
Sounds familiar? I have been in this situation as well as many of my clients. Therefore I want to offer a solution. I want to offer relationship advice that would help shift your perspective and adopt a very different attitude.
How to Improve Your Relationship
Imagine, if when feeling disappointed with something your partner does not do or doesn’t do enough, we would start shifting our attention towards ourselves. Start asking yourself, “What I can do to make myself feel better? What are the steps I can take to understand my partner better? How can I express my needs in a way that my partner would understand?”
By asking these questions, you will start cultivating more self-awareness that will help you understand yourself as well as your partner better. Perhaps with time, you will learn to recognize what triggers you and what exactly makes you feel dissatisfied in your relationship? You might also recognize, that there are things that you can do to improve your communication and mutual understanding.
This is not to say that we have to start taking full responsibility for every crack in our relationship, because sometimes no matter what we do – it’s just not enough. However, taking a deep look at yourself and start asking how YOU can improve the relationship and make yourself feel better is a crucial step towards better relationships and mutual communication in the future.
Watch the video below to fully understand this idea. If you have any questions, please ask me anytime and I will be more than happy to help!